Friday, October 02, 2009

Such good advise

Thanks to all those who give me such good advise on MY blog. I appreciate being that we all have different points of view, but what makes you think yours are the correct ones the whole time, and that I am a misguided poor lost sole that deserves to be told WHAT to put on my blog and WHEN and WHY.

I appreciate engendering good, even robust discussion in this forum, but certainly won't be told what I can and can't write or comment on. I have lived and worked in numerous countries around the world and so perhaps have a global, need I say balanced perspective on events, politics and sport - just because I may dare to not share your views, does not warrant the tone of the comments I get, many of which I do not publish - some in support, others scathing on articles in the Blog.

Once before I considered hitting the delete button on the blog and was asked not to. It started as a forum to let family and friends in South Africa know what we were up to, but now that we are in a different position I have debated if this is relevant anymore. Came to the conclusion it was, and enjoy seeing aspects of life here, in RSA and elsewhere, but it is not a forum to slag off, or as has been suggested JUSTIFY why we moved to Australia. Far from it, I stuffed up in Cape Town and found, very luckily, a good job in Australia. I since lost that and another job and am at my third employer here. Australia has many problems, is not utopia and is very expensive to live in, just the problems are different to those faced by many of our friends and family now. We are here to stay, like it or not - we couldn't afford to move anywhere else anyway. It's not all bad though, and we do enjoy many aspects of life here.

Don't compare us to you, I won't. Don't feel sorry for us or yourselves, live your lives and enjoy too, and if you get uptight reading my blog, sorry, skip it , I don't want to make anyone "the moer in".

Funny though, on the things I write what concerns uncontentious issues, I never get any response at all?

Dave

3 comments:

Ryan Ballantyne said...

Well said! I may disagree on some of your points of view... but thats normal! Just because we differ on certain subjects, doesn't mean I don't love reading this blog! Please DON'T stop writing and posting... EVERY morning I get into work and check to see if anything new has been posted... Seeing you guys and reading the news sometime just gets me through the day.... LOVE and HUGS Ryano... (And I dare say, keep stirring!)

Dave said...

Thanks Son, maybe you understand me better than a bunch of other people. It fine to dissagree with anyone's point of view, but isn't it amazing how some people take things so personally, even when the object of what the artical is someone unknown to them personally as well, or a sporting team. Its a good thing this freedom of speech, I fought for it and killed people for it, and now it's in the South African constitution.

Dave said...

Just my last chirp, and for anyone to tell me that I must not put anymore about any subject on my blog just irritates me.